Category: I fancy myself a writer

I Can’t…I just Can’t…But I’m So Gonna Tell You Anyway.

* I can’t blame anyone for the struggles I went through as a teen or in my 20’s. I made some dumbass mistakes and I dealt with the consequences…some not good and some really not good but I’m alive…Aliiiiiiiive!!!! * I can’t look at someone in the face and honestly...

Asian Immigrant Moms and Dads…We Love You Long Time!

Baaaaaaawling!!!! I understand that not all parents are fantastic. I understand that there are many who put themselves 1st to their own children. I understand that there are legit reasons why some kids have broken relationships with their parents. But there are also those who are so blind to all...

Wipe the Crap Out of Your Life: Go Cleanse Thyselfeth…

Clarity. A full on Smack-You-In-The-Face-Wake-Up-And-End-The-Madness moment of clarity. There is so much more to life than wasting time on being disappointed and upset with your fellow humanoids. Getting angry and being disappointed in people on such a grand scale has no place in our lives. It’s taken up enough wasted...

Elementary, Here We Come! I’m Excited and a Bit Scuuured.

Seems like it all kinda happened at once today. There’s something about having two sets of uniforms and two sets of school supply lists in front of you that makes you think “holy crap, the madness of a serious education has begun. Dramarama Josh will be in 1st grade and...

Just be You. You’re Enough.

Sometimes I think I wasn’t cut out to be someone’s spouse. Sometimes I think I wasn’t meant to be a mom. Most of the time I feel like I’m not living up to my full potential. Sometimes I think if Rose had scooted over just a little bit, Jack could’ve...

4 Days of Pure Emotional Crayness Thanks to the Mayhem in our life…

August 4th, 2015 Well, after years of no major incidents, Matty went to his first trip to Urgent care at Kaiser (We love Kaiser!) He hurt himself playing at school and kept on saying his ankle hurt cause he scratched it but there was no swelling around the ankles so...

Y’all, I’ve Been Replaced by The Hulk

So this JUST happened: You know you’re a parent when you hear the familiar sound of your kid climbing out of bed at around midnight to come get you to sleep with him because he’s scared. Other kids have blankets or stuffed animals. Josh’s security blanket comes in the form...

Women Unite: One life. One chance. One happiness.

Repost from 7/22/14 but it has meaning today too. I’ve been feeling kind of down lately. My life is awesome, I can’t really complain about anything but we’re all human, we all have our pity parties. Today was a particular poopoo day but it all changed with these words from...

Life: Just keep swimming…just keeeeep swimming…just keep your freakin’ ass swimming…

Yesterday was a tough day. Emotionally and mentally I was in a bad way. I got some bad news a few days ago affecting someone I love and it’s been a suckfest of drama for me in my overthinking head. I didn’t want to get out of bed and the...