Category: I fancy myself a writer

The Society That Wants To Keep Women Hating on Eachother

I’m still flabbergasted at this whole war between SAHM vs. Working mom that’s still raging on. Apparently there’s an article going around about some research that says working moms raise more successful daughters and more caring sons… REALLY HARVARD? SERIOUSLY, DUDES? What do you hope to gain from this? More...

What Asian Are You? Don’t Be Offended…I Love You Long Time.

I saw this years ago and thought it was funny. I guess it’s circulating again and it’s still definitely funny. To be completely honest, I don’t get mad at people when they ask me where I’m from…I don’t think people have any ill intentions asking…I’m obviously not white so it’s...

Rebel against Comfort and Shake your State of Mind…

Life is really such an adventure, isn’t it? Often times we see ourselves so pigeonholed in our thoughts and emotions that we shut ourselves from even experiencing new things and new people. So we stay in our safe place, content with ourselves, our set in stone way of thinking and...

Failed Asian. Still Happy. Life Still Loves Me Long Time.

In light of so many recent stories of people accusing Asian parents of treating their kids like Robots and kids running away from home because of the incredible amount of pressure and expectations that come with being an Asian kid…stereotypically and in real life…here’s my story. Family members: You’re such...

Video: When Beauty Fades and all that Remains is…LOVE.

Laughing and crying watching this incredibly funny and emotional video of a young couple who are about to embark on their journey as a married couple. With the power of make-up, they are able to see what they would look like throughout the years and the results will make you...

Dad is Not a Babysitter, Suckas…

I’m so sick of hearing people jokingly say “Oh, you better pay your husband a babysitter fee…” when dads watch the kids while the mom goes out. HE IS THE DAD. HE IS NOT A BABYSITTER. HE IS EQUALLY A PARENT AS THE MOM. It’s BECAUSE so many make it...

Diary of a 16 Year Old Kathy: This is the Sad

Looking through old diaries and I found this excerpt from the 11th grade: Kathy Hong (Age 16): “My mom keeps on trying to get me to wear a little makeup but what’s the point. There’s no use trying to pretty up something when the canvas is broken. Nothing much to...

Proud to be a Prius Driving Ghetto Maintenance Housewife with Velcro Dinosaur Shoes and a Smart Ass Smirk

There has been a lot of articles clogging up my Facebook newsfeed lately about the Uber Rich Housewives living in the East Coast. Stay at Home “Wife Bonuses”  seem to be a real thing particularly in the Upper East Side. This excerpt from a fascinating article appropriately titled, “Inside the...