Category: I fancy myself a writer

Parenting Thoughts. Yay. Boo. Beer.

There is nothing like having kids of your own to realize that pretty much everything you thought you knew about kids and parenting was wrong and totally delusional. So easy to be so sure of reality when you’re not in the midst of that reality. Raising these little humanoids has...

Selfishness has no place in Marriage or Parenthood

Sometimes I watch TV shows or movies where the heroine can do whatever she wants whenever she wants at any given time and I wanna be HER. Absolutely, I mean, who the hell doesn’t? But reality is, with the responsibilities of being a mom and a spouse, I don’t have...

Christianity+Misfit = LOVE in all it’s RADNESS

Today’s church service was RADNESS. The message was crystal clear. Don’t add negativity to life’s simple things…don’t talk of peace yet cause chaos. Don’t talk of love yet hate with your words and actions. Don’t be passive aggressive in things that matter. Don’t be the impending storm in circumstances. Don’t...

What People Don’t Tell You When You’re Having a Baby…But Should.

Let’s face it, most people have kids because life tells you that it’s what you should do as a man and a woman. It’s existed from the beginning of time…when you get married you’re supposed to procreate…it’s just a “natural process” of life that’s existed for years and it’s absolutely...

4 Things that Annoy the Hell out of Me which I’m sure Annoys the hell out of some of you too.

There’s 4 things that have been bothering me A LOT lately. 1. When a female is not as chippy or bubbly as usual, refrain from saying in a pissed off manner, “What’s your problem, you must have PMS!” It is absolutely normal for people to be moody if they had...

Easter Basket Dramz!!!

I see all these moms posting pictures of the beautiful Easter baskets they made for their kids and I love it! What I hate is seeing some “defend” the amount of stuff in their kids easter bags. STOP IT.   How did we become a society where we’re scared to...