Tagged: kids

Maria Kang, why people no love you long time?

A post from last year I still find relevant today. Luckily I’m surrounded by women who are proud of her & inspired by her: I looked at her and the first thing I thought was “damn, she looks amazing, I hope to look like that next year!” and then I...

TMHS: My Husband Being Whimsical (2)

Here’s some more TMHS. It’s never boring: Mike: Will you please massage my arms, shoulders, legs and feet? That’s it. I think I over did it at the gym today. Pleaaase?? Kathy: No. Mike: Pleeeeeeease??? Kathy: Fine. (2 minutes into it) Mike: Omigod, I am so making you a friendship...

Relationships: Mars and Venus is Utter Crap

In 2014,  I had 7 friends end their marriages. SEVEN. All with multiple kids. To the world, it’s just 7 more numbers to add to a statistic, but to me, it’s heartbreaking and it SUCKS. All seven told me the same thing. The main culprit that killed it all: Lack...

Perfection Does Not Exist…

Let me tell you the reasons why I admire mothers who don’t live in the universe of “My kids are perfect”, “I’m a better mom than you” and “my marriage is so delightful all the time”: You’re intelligent. You question things people are afraid to boldly. You’re incredibly talented in...

What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

Imagination play in the making…this is probably the most intelligent conversation I’ve heard between the Hongzeff Boys (Josh is 5, Matthew is 4) thus far: Matty: Thank you Dr. Josh for putting a bandaid on my fireman who got hurt in the giant fire! Josh: You know, I’m not only...