Person with no kids: Omigod, your boys are so cute and fun, you must want to be around them all the time!! Kathy: Nope, not all the time. (Looks at me like I’m a bad person) 7 simple things I’ve learned from being a mother and a SAHM: 1. Having...
One thing I’ve learned only after I became a mother of boys… I love the free spirit of little boys before society tells them what they should and should not do or say as males. When boys are small, they hold hands with eachother, they say things like “I love...
One major life lesson I know to be completely true is… That even in what seems to be the darkest moments of a friendship, if there is true love, a real understanding of eachother and a friendship that exists without the ridiculousness of keeping up with the joneses whether it...
When I was young… I wanted to be anything but Asian. Now I be like “Woohoo, I love my people!” Some kids used to call me horrible names, now I have kids who call me names like mommy and pretty princess. I used to look in the mirror & think...
Josh was a 100% formula baby. Matty was a 100% breastfed baby. Both healthy. Both crazy. Both equally loved by their mother. Women…we need to calm the hell down when it comes to talking about breastfeeding, vaccinations and everything in between. Being an A-hole about it doesn’t help your cause...
Exhibit A: Classic Typical Korean mom moment # I lost count: Mom: Thanks for the pictures yesterday. Kathy: Fun pics right? They were taken at a Thanksgiving event at the school. Mom: You and the boys came out so great in the picture. Well, the boys always look perfect in...
In 2014, I had 7 friends end their marriages. SEVEN. All with multiple kids. To the world, it’s just 7 more numbers to add to a statistic, but to me, it’s heartbreaking and it SUCKS. All seven told me the same thing. The main culprit that killed it all: Lack...
6 years ago 7 year ago, Mike and I were typing out our birth plan and I had my giant suitcase packed ready to leave the house at 5:30am to get induced at 7am. Josh was getting too big and if I wanted to have him naturally, it had to...
I think it’s pretty asinine to tell people who they should mourn for or who should be mourned more when people die. I hope someday we’ll all stop making eachother feel like idiots and bring ourselves down from the I’m smarter and better than you pedestal that keeps people from...
Reflection: On the morning of September 11th 2001, I was running late to work so I didn’t even bother turning on my car radio…I was just focused on getting from point A to B. When I got to work that morning, I was met with the kind of eerie silence...
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